I don't trust my fiancee with this guy, i think she might cheat! Advice?
Im 29, a firefighter who i have been with my fiancee for 7yrs, she is 26 and comes from a family of cheaters but she has tried so hard to not turn out like them, she was diagnosed at 18 with borderline personality disorder. I have wanted to get married for a long time but she will not agree on a wedding date. She has recently got in contact with a really old friend who is a really well to do racing driver, he is 30 & he lives in Monaco, he is so arrogant but acts like a great guy when my fiancee is around. He told me that i was a lucky guy, that he always had strong feelings for her & though that they should be together, later that day i heard him tell her friend that he is in love with her & she deserves better than she has. Last week my fiance called my cell and when he found out they were going to have lunch together, when i got home from work i wouldn't drop the subject and told me that her i trust her but don't trust him. He will 'joke and throws her over his shoulder and basically everyone laughs, if he wins a race he bases his success on her giving him the luck, he's always standing next to her and he always tells her she looks beautiful etc. I think she likes the attention as she will smile back or look at him, she is a natural flirt and to be honest i don't know if i trust her 100% as her families reputation haunts me, I love her so much i would die for her but i could never compete with him money wise. I don't know why this bothers me so much they just seem to flirt with each other a lot but she always tells me im being ridiculous and that he doesn't like her. Any advice would be great.
Women's Health - 1 Answers
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you can spice up your relationship, buy some toys,role-playing(u are a firefighter),maybe some body paint there are a lot more things.anyways or you can be romantic send flowers for no occasion,take her to dinner,picnics are cheap and cute. Hope i helped
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wow tell her what you feel
Monday, March 21, 2011
Monday, March 14, 2011
Can I file a wrongful termination lawsuit for my case
Can I file a wrongful termination lawsuit for my case?
I was fired from my job. I came to disagreement with one of the managers. The manager told me I could not leave after the time of my shift. I tried to contact my ride to let them know I needed to stay later and the manager yelled at me for using my phone.I had plans to eat with my girlfriend and I was not allowed to call and let her know that I was not going to make it. If I was off at my regular time I would have made it no problem. I told the manager this and she said I am not suppose to be using my phone. Several nights after my shift ended I was told I needed to stay later and I had to be home at a certain time. I explained to the manager I could not stay because I needed to get a key to my apt to get in from my roommate before he went out of town. The manager said to me why dont you go and get another key made. It is illegal for me to go and get another key made. It said so on the key. I was staying at a friends house which is why I did not have a key.I was not home in time to get the key and waited outside of the house for 5hrs until 3am. I had not eaten for 12 hrs so I didnt fall asleep until around 5am.I called in the next morning and explained to the Head manager what all took place and asked if I could come in late because I was exhausted. My shift started at 11am. She said I needed to come in. I was there on time and explained in further detail what all took place and I could hardly keep my eyes open. I asked her if I could leave early and she said I could. When I started to leave at the time she said I could, she said to me "I think we are going to need you to stay". I was sick a couple of days later just from the lack of sleep and being exhausted. I had a fevor and called in to tell them I was sick and they told me I had to come into work. I had a 100 degree fevor. I notified the other manager about all of this and she did nothing. The other manager was out of line with what she said to me. I was yelled at to do stuff after I thought everything was done and she said to me, "go find something". A couple of time when the store was busy in my 6 hour shift, I was suppose to get a 30 minute break. I had to leave right at the end of my shift to get my ride home and I asked the manager if I could leave right at the end of my shift if I do not go on break. The manager said I could leave right at the end of my shift if I didnt take my break. I missed my dinner and when my shift ended she tells me I had to stay later to work. After being yelled at by the manager again, I could not take it anymore. I notified the other manager about the issues and nothing was done. How was I suppose to not be treated like that anymore? I did not show for my next 3 days of work and I sent the Head manager an email regarding all of the issues. I told her what am I suppose to do. I come in and work hard and I get treated like this. I wanted to work there but how could I if that manager was going to keep treating me the same way?The manager asked me what would make things better and I asked if it would be possible to work the shifts where that manager was not there. The Head manager said I should have handled it better and a week later I received my letter in the mail with my letter from Club Monaco telling me I was fired. I worked very hard there and all the other employees would tell you that I did. They will tell you that I was taken advantage of because I would always put in the extra effort.I was never paid extra for staying after to work extra. They were having me stay 30min to an hour after I was suppose to get off work. I started feeling helpless and felt like I was I being treated like some idiot.The one manager who had a problem with me and would say things to me like go do something one day even wrote on a piece of paper here is what your going to do. It was the same thing I did everyday. She didnt give this paper to anyone else.I am not some idiot I thought to myself but it felt like I was being treated like one. Some of the other employees laughed when they saw the piece of paper. Do I have a case for a lawsuit?
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I think you do, I'd say contact a lawyer and see what can be done. But I also think that after a day or 2, you should've talked with your HR manager or even call headquarters and ask to speak to the one in charge of overseeing that region. It would've gotten them in trouble and maybe even fired. Did you keep the little papers she gave you? you can use it in the lawsuit. Also the extra hours, were they logged? Then the testimony of the other employees would certaintly help. The video cameras in the building.
I was fired from my job. I came to disagreement with one of the managers. The manager told me I could not leave after the time of my shift. I tried to contact my ride to let them know I needed to stay later and the manager yelled at me for using my phone.I had plans to eat with my girlfriend and I was not allowed to call and let her know that I was not going to make it. If I was off at my regular time I would have made it no problem. I told the manager this and she said I am not suppose to be using my phone. Several nights after my shift ended I was told I needed to stay later and I had to be home at a certain time. I explained to the manager I could not stay because I needed to get a key to my apt to get in from my roommate before he went out of town. The manager said to me why dont you go and get another key made. It is illegal for me to go and get another key made. It said so on the key. I was staying at a friends house which is why I did not have a key.I was not home in time to get the key and waited outside of the house for 5hrs until 3am. I had not eaten for 12 hrs so I didnt fall asleep until around 5am.I called in the next morning and explained to the Head manager what all took place and asked if I could come in late because I was exhausted. My shift started at 11am. She said I needed to come in. I was there on time and explained in further detail what all took place and I could hardly keep my eyes open. I asked her if I could leave early and she said I could. When I started to leave at the time she said I could, she said to me "I think we are going to need you to stay". I was sick a couple of days later just from the lack of sleep and being exhausted. I had a fevor and called in to tell them I was sick and they told me I had to come into work. I had a 100 degree fevor. I notified the other manager about all of this and she did nothing. The other manager was out of line with what she said to me. I was yelled at to do stuff after I thought everything was done and she said to me, "go find something". A couple of time when the store was busy in my 6 hour shift, I was suppose to get a 30 minute break. I had to leave right at the end of my shift to get my ride home and I asked the manager if I could leave right at the end of my shift if I do not go on break. The manager said I could leave right at the end of my shift if I didnt take my break. I missed my dinner and when my shift ended she tells me I had to stay later to work. After being yelled at by the manager again, I could not take it anymore. I notified the other manager about the issues and nothing was done. How was I suppose to not be treated like that anymore? I did not show for my next 3 days of work and I sent the Head manager an email regarding all of the issues. I told her what am I suppose to do. I come in and work hard and I get treated like this. I wanted to work there but how could I if that manager was going to keep treating me the same way?The manager asked me what would make things better and I asked if it would be possible to work the shifts where that manager was not there. The Head manager said I should have handled it better and a week later I received my letter in the mail with my letter from Club Monaco telling me I was fired. I worked very hard there and all the other employees would tell you that I did. They will tell you that I was taken advantage of because I would always put in the extra effort.I was never paid extra for staying after to work extra. They were having me stay 30min to an hour after I was suppose to get off work. I started feeling helpless and felt like I was I being treated like some idiot.The one manager who had a problem with me and would say things to me like go do something one day even wrote on a piece of paper here is what your going to do. It was the same thing I did everyday. She didnt give this paper to anyone else.I am not some idiot I thought to myself but it felt like I was being treated like one. Some of the other employees laughed when they saw the piece of paper. Do I have a case for a lawsuit?
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I think you do, I'd say contact a lawyer and see what can be done. But I also think that after a day or 2, you should've talked with your HR manager or even call headquarters and ask to speak to the one in charge of overseeing that region. It would've gotten them in trouble and maybe even fired. Did you keep the little papers she gave you? you can use it in the lawsuit. Also the extra hours, were they logged? Then the testimony of the other employees would certaintly help. The video cameras in the building.
Monday, March 7, 2011
How do i replace my Headlight bulbs on a 1990 Renault 5 Monaco
How do i replace my Headlight bulbs on a 1990 Renault 5 Monaco?
I have the bulbs but dont really know where to start when replacing them. At the minute they only work on "dimmed" and "Full Beam" (very bright) so want to get this sorted sooner rather than later Thanks in advance to all that answer
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There is a round cover on the back of the headlamp, twist this cover and remove it. You should be able to see the back of the headlight bulb, there is a connector plugged on to the bulb (has three wires going to it) pull the connector of the bulb, they can be quite tight so you may have to wiggle it and pull at the same time. Once the connector is off, the bulb is held in place by a clip that hooks in to the back of the lamp. release the clip and remove the bulb. Fit the new bulb, they should be fitted with the terminals on the back in the shape of a 'n' (no terminal at the bottom), refit the clip and the connector, refit the back cover on to the light (has an arrow showing which is the top on it)
I have the bulbs but dont really know where to start when replacing them. At the minute they only work on "dimmed" and "Full Beam" (very bright) so want to get this sorted sooner rather than later Thanks in advance to all that answer
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There is a round cover on the back of the headlamp, twist this cover and remove it. You should be able to see the back of the headlight bulb, there is a connector plugged on to the bulb (has three wires going to it) pull the connector of the bulb, they can be quite tight so you may have to wiggle it and pull at the same time. Once the connector is off, the bulb is held in place by a clip that hooks in to the back of the lamp. release the clip and remove the bulb. Fit the new bulb, they should be fitted with the terminals on the back in the shape of a 'n' (no terminal at the bottom), refit the clip and the connector, refit the back cover on to the light (has an arrow showing which is the top on it)
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
Diano Marina. Italy. Weather in first week in September
Diano Marina. Italy. Weather in first week in September.?
Can anyone help me please? I am kinda desperate. Me and my hubby and 13 y.o. daughter want to go to Diano Marina, Italy (near to the South of France/Monaco/Cannes etc,) from 30th August to 8th September. It's a good package with a popular Midlands Coach company, and it stops overnight in Dijon, which is fab coz it means no overnight coach travel - (been there done that yuk.) But this is the only date left with them though that isn't in mid summer. They have limited trips during the year (only about twelve...) And the two September ones (20th and 27th) are gone, as have the May and June ones... So we are left with the July and August ones only. I don't want it to be TOO hot. Would anyone have any clues as to what temperature we can/should expect around that date??? What would the weather at the *end* of August, when this date is, be like? Here's where it is. Hope this works... http://maps.google.co.uk/maps?hl=en&tab=wl Thanks everyone Sorry, the google maps link didn't bring up Diano Marina, it only brings up the general map. Please type in Diano Marina if you want to see where it is.
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It gets to about 85 in early September. Should be OK.
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Septembers is a wonderful period to visit Italy Come on and see. Im italian
Can anyone help me please? I am kinda desperate. Me and my hubby and 13 y.o. daughter want to go to Diano Marina, Italy (near to the South of France/Monaco/Cannes etc,) from 30th August to 8th September. It's a good package with a popular Midlands Coach company, and it stops overnight in Dijon, which is fab coz it means no overnight coach travel - (been there done that yuk.) But this is the only date left with them though that isn't in mid summer. They have limited trips during the year (only about twelve...) And the two September ones (20th and 27th) are gone, as have the May and June ones... So we are left with the July and August ones only. I don't want it to be TOO hot. Would anyone have any clues as to what temperature we can/should expect around that date??? What would the weather at the *end* of August, when this date is, be like? Here's where it is. Hope this works... http://maps.google.co.uk/maps?hl=en&tab=wl Thanks everyone Sorry, the google maps link didn't bring up Diano Marina, it only brings up the general map. Please type in Diano Marina if you want to see where it is.
Other - Europe - 2 Answers
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It gets to about 85 in early September. Should be OK.
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Septembers is a wonderful period to visit Italy Come on and see. Im italian
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