Im 29, a firefighter who i have been with my fiancee for 7yrs, she is 26 and comes from a family of cheaters but she has tried so hard to not turn out like them. She has recently got in contact with a really old friend who is a really well to do racing driver & he lives in Monaco, he is so arrogant but acts like a great guy when my fiancee is around. He told me that i was a lucky guy, that he always had strong feelings for her & though that they should be together. One day last week my fiance called my cell and when he found out they were going to have lunch together, when i got home from work i wouldn't drop the subject and told me that her i trust her but don't trust him. He will 'joke and throws her over his shoulder and basically everyone laughs, if he wins a race he bases his success on her giving him the luck, he's always standing next to her and he always tells her she looks beautiful etc. I think she likes the attention as she will smile back or look at him, she is a natural flirt and to be honest i don't know if i trust her 100% as her families reputation haunts me, I love her so much i would die for her but i could never compete with him money wise. I don't know why this bothers me so much they just seem to flirt with each other a lot but she always tells me im being ridiculous. Any advice would be great.
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It is normal to bother you, and like you're saying she is a natural flirt maybe she doesnt mean anything by it and is just flirting for her satisfaction? lol If you feel that you dont trust her then let her know, but dont offend her. And why are u with her if u dont trust 100% her? :s
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I would be pissed off too. I understand having friends and all and being in a trusting relationship, but if this jerk is saying things like you are beautiful and that they should have been together, that's cause for concern. I would continue to let her know that you are uncomfortable with her being around him and stress just how much you love her and you don't want this issue to come between you two. Good luck.
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Her family's history is irrelevant, so forget about them. If she's your fiancee, why is she having lunch alone with a man who is openly flirting with her and obviously implies that he will make a move on her. She's disrespecting you by hanging out with this guy. If you were behaving like this, 20 women would've answered by now calling you all sorts of names and they'd tell her to leave you. But somehow the standard is different for her? She's obviously not considering you or thinking about your relationship. Her actions to this point would make me seriously doubt her whether she went to lunch or not.
